Internal and external connections

This book is where I got to after decades of watching and testing. I was brought up primed to see the worst of us. Set aside expectations, approach the problem with acceptance of the actual behaviors and context, and they simply are not the most of us. But, and here’s the key: those who truly are dark triad, and not just replicating their behavior because they’ve witnessed it too much, will not change. The only successful way of dealing with them is to not allow them access to you — not physically, not in your career, for all that's good avoid them in positions of power, and definitely not in social media.

And, to be clear, this is after decades of information ingesting, watching, and testing. Decades of information ingestion, with so many reference points that had concepts that stayed with me, but which I can't for the life of me trace now (there's one book I've been trying to trace on and off for over 15 years, literally hundreds of hours trying to find the specific title again). I never thought that I would write this, until I started. I never thought it would be for anyone but my niece-in-twenty-years, until it shifted. Any attribution that isn't clear is sincerely regretted.

Because of this, the internal network of the book, and our emerging understanding, I actually made connections along three lines.